By Anonymous
Whether you realize it or not, people who refuse to grow with
you simply can't go with you. So often we get so caught up in our emotions that
we seem to think that just because someone has been by our side for years that
we are entitled to take them with us to each proceeding level of our lives. At
some point in your life you must realize that everyone can’t go with you to the
next level and here’s why:
Some People Are Seasonal
Tyler Perry put it best in his hit movie Madea Goes To Jail:
Some people come into your life and they are like leaves on a tree. They are
only there for a season. You can't depend on them or count on them because they
are weak and only there to give you shade. Like leaves, they are there to take
what they need and as soon as it gets cold or wind blows in your life they are
gone. You can't be angry at them, it's just who they are.
Some People Will Only Remember You From Your Past
“Remember when…” we all have those friends who always begins
their conversations with us using those two words.For many of us it’s often fun
to reminisce; however, when you’re on your way to destiny you can’t afford to
spend time looking in the rear view mirror. Those who constantly remind you of
your past, can’t propel you to your future.
Some People Can’t Handle Where You’re Going
Let’s face it. Not everyone can handle where you’re going and
once you settle that within yourself you will stop allowing yourself to get
bent out shape over people who walked away. Motivational speaker Tony Gaskins
put it best: you’re going to lose some people on the way, but remember not
everyone is intended to go with you so Leave them behind.
Cheers!
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